God says
…marry of the women, who seems good to you,…. Q.4:3
Prophet said
“A previously married women (widower or divorcee) will not be married until she gives her consent, nor a virgin be married till her consent is sought.” -- H: Bukhari and Muslim. N: AbuHurairah
“A grown up girl shall be asked permission about herself. Her consent is in her silence; and if she declines, there will be no compulsion on her.” -- H: Tirmizi, Abu Daud and Nisai. N: Abu Hurairah.
Khansa’a-b-Khejan reported that she was a grown up women and her father gave her in marriage which she disliked. Therefore, she came to the Holy Prophet. He annulled the marriage. — H: Bukhari.
Mughaira-b-Sh’ubah reported: I sought a woman in marriage. The holy Prophet asked me: “Have you seen her?” I said that I had not. He said: “Then look at her…” – H: Ahmed, Tirmizi, Nisai and Ibn Majah.
